You might remember Tina Turner! 
Her famous song, "What's Love Got to Do With It?" asks a question that was on her mind. "Who needs a heart when a heart can be broken?"

No doubt the writer of the song had a heart broken by the shallowness of attraction. When the flame died, so did the love.

Maybe you have been broken by the promises of someone who swore undying love when it didn't turn out that way. Maybe you've decided that if love is real, it has to come from someone else!